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ones from scams. Every Tuesday at 8 a.m. Pacific Time
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will provide valuable insights and practical tips on how to
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recognize and protect yourself from scams. And now, here is
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your host, Joyce Petrowski.
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Good morning, everybody. Happy September. My name is Brian Watson,
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Community Outreach Specialist for the nonprofit ROSE, which stands for
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Resources Outreach to Safeguard the Elderly. And today you have
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tuned into Let's Talk About Scams. This is our online
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radio show, which becomes a podcast because it's recorded and
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it can be shared and watched forever. So thank you
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for tuning in today. Today's topic on Let's Talk About
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Scams is rotary phones and telephones. The title of today's
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show is We All Had the Same Rotary Dial Phone.
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So let's get into it. So I've done almost 100
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scam prevention presentations. So I have met so many people
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all over the state of Arizona. And I even did
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one in California, a presentation. But talking about scams is...
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Kind of a dreary subject because inevitably we have to
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talk about scam victims and the criminals behind it and
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all the mischievous and devious ways that these criminals steal
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from people. And they're innocent people and it's heartbreaking. And
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I have met so many victims of scams that have
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lost all different amounts of money and it's affected them
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in a horrible way. And now as it's getting worse
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and worse, It used to be once a month I
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would meet someone who was a victim. Now it's becoming weekly.
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And someone's supposed to be calling me today. And I'm
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going to talk to this person. But it's just nonstop.
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So that being said, dreary subject, I actually tried to
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inject some humor into my presentations. Because telling one story
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or another about someone having lost their life savings to
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a scammer It's a heavy subject. And I've learned a
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little bit of levity can lighten the mood in the room.
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People can relax a little bit. And they're more apt
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to pay attention and absorb what we're trying to talk about. Now,
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humor has to be done tastefully. And I'm always very
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tasteful about it. And I've been doing it for a while.
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But a couple of years ago, I attended... a citizen
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Academy at my local police department. And the officer that
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night did a lesson or a section on active shooter training.
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So that's like the scariest subject you could cover in
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citizen Academy. And he made it very clear right off
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the bat. Like I'm going to tell some jokes tonight.
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Some of them might be a little, might be dad
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jokes and might be a little corny, but I'm doing
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this intentionally because, just to lighten the mood a little bit,
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because if not, I'm going to send everyone home depressed
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and scared. Um, so he made that statement that it's
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okay to laugh at certain things. Um, so I do
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the same thing now when I do presentations, I tell people,
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you know what, it's okay to laugh, not at people
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losing money. We certainly don't laugh at that, but we
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try to inject some humor because, um, you know, In life,
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we need to laugh. Laughter is the best medicine. So
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when I do presentations now, I always show a photo
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of a yellow rotary dial phone circa 1980. It was
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basically the phone that I grew up with in my house.
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And I always ask the audience, raise your hand if
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you ever had a phone like this. It doesn't matter
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the color. And everyone raises their hands. Because most of
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the time when we do presentations, our age group is,
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you know, 40 plus, maybe 50 plus, sometimes even older.
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And everyone's hands go up. And then I noticed people
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started laughing. So I was like, wow, we're going to
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keep using this. Because it's, you know, originally it was
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not meant as a joke. It was just an observation.
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And what I found out is, seriously, there was like
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one model of phone that back in the 70s and 80s.
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And it came in three colors. It was like yellow, white,
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and maybe blue or green or something like that. But
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people get that. There just weren't a whole lot of choices.
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So that's done very intentionally. It gets people's attention, piqued
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their interest. They've laughed. They've kind of relaxed a little bit.
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And then I always follow it up. I said, what
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did we do when this phone rang? And standard answer is,
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we answered it, which is absolutely true. So If we
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think about it, 40 or 50 years ago, we didn't
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have cell phones. We had these landlines. They rang. There
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was no caller ID. There was no call waiting. There
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was no voicemail until later. Those things eventually came around.
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But that telephone was our lifeline to the world. That's
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how family reached out to us. Neighbors, the doctor's office,
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you know, everything revolved around that phone. The only other
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option was someone showing up at your door or receiving mail.
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So I contend that people that are my age and older,
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we are trained, conditioned to answer the phone. And we're
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also expected to be polite. Back in the day, hanging
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up on someone. And, you know, back then it was
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a little hanging up. it was unheard of, you know,
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our parents raised us well, like you answered the phone
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and had good manners. Um, and it was just the way. So,
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and then back in the seventies and eighties and even
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the early nineties, um, phone scams were extremely rare. So
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you did not have to be so cautious back then.
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It was more common to get a crank callers, just
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someone messing around on the phone than a, than a scammer. Um,
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and then, Back in those days, we didn't have cryptocurrency.
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We didn't have prepaid debit cards. We didn't have Zelle, Venmo, PayPal,
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any of these peer-to-peer payments. So that is what gets
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a lot of people in my generation and older in
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trouble when it comes to phone scams. We are hardwired
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to answer the phone and to be nice because these
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phone scams, they're not high tech. These could have been
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executed years ago. They're actually very low tech, but the
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difference is they're executed very well. The scammers are reading
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from scripts off their computer screen that have been proven
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to work. So let's talk about how to avoid getting
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scammed when it comes to phone scams. The number one
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thing that we recommend here at Rose is you screen
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your phone calls. I know that's hard to do. The
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best advice when I say screening is only answer the
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phone if it's someone in your contacts. If it's a friend,
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family member, someone you know, doctor's office, things like that.
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And then sometimes too, you got to remember the scammers
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can spoof what's on there. They can make it say
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internal revenue service, social security administration, your local police department,
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your local bank. So even then you got to be careful,
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but always screen your phone calls. If it's an unknown number,
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just let it go to voicemail. They'll leave a message.
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You call them back. It's, it's super easy. Um, just
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respond to your voicemails. So, um, and if you do
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answer the phone and let's say you realize, Oh no,
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this is not going well. This person is pushy. They're urgent.
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They're scaring me. You have the right to hang up. Um,
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Even though your parents told you as a kid, you
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cannot hang up the phone and be rude to someone.
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I am giving you permission to hang up the phone.
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And the great thing about cell phones is you physically
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don't have to hang up. All you have to do
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is hit that little red button to end the call.
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It's so easy. If you feel like you have to
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say something, just say, sorry, I'm busy right now. Or
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you know what? I'm giving you permission to lie. The
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scammers are lying to you. You are allowed to lie
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to them. I don't consider that bad at all You're
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just protecting yourself if you have to say something just say,
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I have company. There's someone at the door. I got
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food in the oven. I got to take the dog out.
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Maybe even make a list of five or six things
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on a post-it note and put it on your counter.
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So when you do answer the phone, you have a
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lie that you can share back to them. you have
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no obligation to be polite. They are trying to steal
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your money. You are allowed to lie. So what I've
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learned is, you know, in today's world, it doesn't matter
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how smart you are because, um, these scammers are absolute professionals. Um,
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they are way better at this than any of us are. Um,
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you know, they're trained. If, if you, um, they say
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your bank account's closed and you need to move your
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money and you come back with a question, they have
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an answer for it. If you get a call about
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the jury duty that you missed and you have questions,
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they have answers ready to go. Since I've been doing
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this for three years with Rose, everyone I've met that's
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a criminal has stolen their money, like you're dealing with
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professional criminals that just are way better at this than
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even the smartest people I meet. So I've done a
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lot of presentations, as I mentioned. I'm up to 99. Hopefully,
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I'm going to get my 100th soon. I've done a
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couple of presentations with a lady named Laura. She's a
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bank manager nearby where I live. And she told this
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story to a crowd. And one of her customers came in.
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and had told her, you know, Jenna criminal stole a
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bunch of money from her. It started with the phone
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scam and Laura's listening to her story. And Laura realized
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right away, the lady knew that the whole thing was
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a scam and the phone call lasted a very long time.
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And Laura asked her, well, why didn't you just hang up?
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You knew it was a scam, but why didn't you
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just hang up on this this criminal that was calling
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you and lying to you and pressuring you. And the
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customer said, I didn't want to be rude. I'm like, wow.
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group of people, everyone's jaws just drop and are like,
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oh my gosh. Well, this lady was raised well. Her
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parents told her, you know, don't hang up the phone,
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don't be rude.
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But you know what?
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It cost her dearly. It cost her a lot of money.
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So I'm telling you all, it is time to put
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away the niceties. We have to refuse to be a
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victim of phone scams. Like I said, criminals are calling
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you and lying to you and trying to take your money.
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You have no obligation to be nice. You have to
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be a little bit mean. You have to put a
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chip on your shoulder and be rude to someone. I
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know it's tough for a lot of us. And you
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have to have a healthy amount of skepticism. I'm not
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saying be scared because there's no way any of us
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need to live scared. But anytime that phone rings, ask yourself,
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could this be a scam? And if there's any chance
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that it is a scam, like I said, just hang up.
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You know what? And if you are rude, your parents
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will understand if they're not with us anymore because they
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didn't have to deal with this when they were your age.
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They will understand. So what scams... Use the phone. I
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mentioned a couple of minutes ago, the jury duty scam.
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You get a phone call from someone claiming to be
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from the sheriff's office saying you missed jury duty. That's
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a scam. Any sort of tech support scam where someone
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says you have a virus on your computer or we've
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upgraded service for your antivirus and you need to request
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a refund or whatever. It could be from the bank
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saying someone's trying to infiltrate your bank accounts. Those are
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phone scams. Hang up on them. Last week, I talked
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about the publisher's clearinghouse scam. They call you up and
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tell you you won this publisher's clearinghouse sweepstakes. That's a scam.
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Just hang up on these people. And then the last one,
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I don't see this much anymore, but it still happens.
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And I predict it'll make a comeback is the grandparent scam.
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pick up the phone, you hear a young person saying, grandpa, grandpa,
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help me. I'm in jail. Help me. And you say,
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you know, John, is that you? Yes, it is. John. Oh, grandpa.
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Don't tell mom and dad. I got arrested. I got
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in a car accident. That's the grandparent scam. You got
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to hang up and call your family members. So scam
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prevention is something we need to do on a regular basis. It's,
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it's not usually on the top of people's lists to
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do when they get up in the morning, let's do
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scam prevention. But it's something we have to do. Like
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we have to exercise, we got to drink water and
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we got to eat healthy. We also have to do
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a little bit of scam prevention. It doesn't do any
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good to be on the phone with a scammer and
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figure out, oh, what should I do in this situation?
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Like an athlete, you need to practice so that you
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can perform when you're in the game. So like right now,
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thank you for tuning in today. You are at scam
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prevention practice. And all these little things that we talk