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To a scam.
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Let's talk about scams. It's the must listen show for
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anyone who wants to protect themselves and their loved ones
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from scams. Every Tuesday am Pacific time on K four
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will provide valuable insights and practical tips on how to
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recognize and protect yourself from scams. And now here is
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your host, Joyce Petrowski.
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Good morning, everybody, my name is Brian Watson, community outreach
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specialist for Rose Resources Outreach to safeguard the elderly. And
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today I'm filling in again for Joyce Petrowski, our founder.
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Joyce will be back next week. And today on let's
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talk about scams, We're taking a little different twist. We're
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gonna do a little more education today. And today's topic
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is why choose a senior placement company? And I have
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someone that I've got to know over the last few years,
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Kevin Mullis. I consider him a friend. We've helped each
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other out on a variety of different things. Kevin Mollis
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has been working with senior in the Tucson area since
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twenty ten. He owns and operates Mollis Senior Placement. Today
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he is going to educate us what it means when
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we talk about senior placement. So let's bring Kevin on. Hi,
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Brian Maritan, Kevin, thanks for.
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Joining us, Thank you, thanks for having me.
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All right, let's start out. Why did you start Mollis's
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Senior Placement?
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Well, I started it, like you had just mentioned. I've
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been in the senior industry since twenty ten, so I
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was working with seniors already and then also my father
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developed Alzheimer's and that just really put a lot on
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my plate to deal with. And when he when he
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finally passed away, he had no Alzheimer's for nine years.
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When he passed away a few years ago, it was
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I had a choice to make.
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I can I can.
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I've been reading this add a hard book about Alzheimer's
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and senior care, and now he's passed away. So I
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can just close the book and move on with my
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wife and kids and my life and jobs and everything.
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Or I can keep the book open and use everything
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I just went through and learned.
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About to help other people.
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And so that's really what started the idea of doing
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placement to help other people.
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You know, I first heard you three years ago at
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this networking event in Tucson that is called Senior Spotlight,
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and a lot of people watching today might be familiar
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with it. It's a great way where we can share
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information and ideas and business tips and just everyone's in
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the business and in this group to help each other
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out because we have a passion for helping out older adults.
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And I remember you sharing about your father and I
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thought it was incredibly moving. It was veryotional. You know
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when you cared for what did you learn about the
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whole you know, caretaking and industry or business wherever you
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want to call it, when you were interacting with your
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father's health decline.
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Sure, yeah, I'm I'm glad you remember that presentation. I
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remember it too. I was there at the center. Yeah,
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it was that was close to near the end of
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my father's life and so he was on hospice and
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things were wrapping up and his condition was pretty bad
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at the time. But yeah, so like so from twenty
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ten until about two thousand, I don't know, it doesn't matter,
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four three something like that. No, no, no, I'm sorry,
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twenty fourteen or thirteen whatever. Just for a few years,
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I had I got married, I had kids, and I
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was working in the healthcare field. And then around thirteen
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or fourteen, my dad was diagnosed with also and so
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suddenly it made sense among me and my siblings that
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I would be the person that kind of it's the
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point man for it, because I've got connections in the
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health industry. So it fell on me, and I mean
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it didn't just fall on me. I took it up too.
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But one of the things that really struck me was
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so I've got a family, a relatively young new family.
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I've got my job in.
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The healthcare field, and now I've got my dad who
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required a lot of care.
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Now I was the point person. I wasn't the caregiver.
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I didn't do hands on care for him, but I
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did manage his affairs. I did have to do work
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with VA benefits, get his social security, manage all of
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his bank accounts, sell his house, which is.
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Back in Georgia where we grew up. And it was
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just a whole lot of work.
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And it just struck me how overwhelming it is. It's
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a lot to manage someone else's affairs. And I was,
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you know, I became power of attorney and so I
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had and eventually became legal guardian with the you know, PEMA,
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county courts and everything. But it was just really, really overwhelming.
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It was a lot to do all text applications, guardianship,
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all these things just take a lot of time. And
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I was working in the healthcare industry. I had access
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to nurses, I could talk to daily, social workers, I
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could talk to daily. I had lots of support, and
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I was still overwhelmed and overburdened. It was a lot,
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and so when I try to think about the average
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twosonan who is not in the healthcare field and they
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don't know the first thing.
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About their healthcare field.
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They're a school teacher, or they work at raytheon or
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whatever car mechanic, whatever it is, and now they've got
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to navigate the healthcare field with no support. It's just
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I can't imagine what they're going through. So I just
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know it was hard for me, and I want to
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help people who are going through it as well because
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I learned a lot in my career and in my
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experience with my dad.
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Well, thanks for sharing that. Now let's get into the
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meat of why you're here. How does senior placement work.
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I'm not familiar with it. I have a vague idea,
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but I'd love to hear from someone who's in the business.
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Yeah, so placement is in the big picture. Placement is
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essentially someone being kind of a mediator and a matchmaker.
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So I meet with people. My goal is to find
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well for people come to me.
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You know that they reach out to me on my
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website or through a friend or whatever they reach out.
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They reach out to me for help.
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My goal is to listen to them, find out what
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their needs are, and then ultimately find a good match
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for them as far as senior living goes.
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So that's the overview.
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If I were to break it down a little bit more,
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I do a lot of listening because that's uh. I've
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got some sales background, and that's the main thing I
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learned in my sales experience is.
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You can you can talk, talk, talk all day.
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Long, but if you're not listening to what they need,
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then you're missing the whole point. You've got to know
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what they're what they're looking for, Why did they come,
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Why did they come to me for help? They're trying
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to find the best fit for their loved one or themselves,
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and so I need to listen and understand their story.
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Everyone's got a different story, even if it's there's similarities.
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Everyone's is like fingerprints. Everyone's got their own little special stories,
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their dynamics, their preferences. Everything is so different for each
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person in each situation, and it changes with time too,
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So so listen and mostly well, I prefer to meet
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with them in person, preferably at their house is ideal
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because you can learn a lot about someone from their
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living situation. Like I'm looking at your background right there, Brian,
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and I've learned a lot about you right now, just
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during this time. I'm just kidding, But so I gather
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information primarily about their care needs. You know, do they
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have cognitive deficits, do they need memory care? Do they
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just need people that are going to help them with
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their activities of daily living? And really activities of daily
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living is the primary thing that I'm listening for. Which
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activities of activities of daily living or ADLs are what
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they need help with or are they just looking for
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an independent living place where they can kind of downsize
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and you know, so there's there's just a whole range
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of things that I can be helping them with, but
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primarily their care needs. What their preferences are, Like I
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want to make sure I live on the northwest side
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of town, or I really want to live by my
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granddaughter who lives in the foothills, or whatever it is.
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What are their preferences.
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Do they want a small adult care home that feels
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like someone's you know, a home feel, or do they
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want a big community that has lots of resources and
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options for them, a lot of people that So with
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all their preferences, and then of course, what can they
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afford what are their resources? Do we need to get
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elder law attorney involved to help them manage their money.
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There's just so many different things that I'm listening for.
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And then once I've gathered all this information, so here's
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here are that they are with all their preferences, and
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then here's all the senior living and so I just
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match them up with help here's the perfect fit, and then.
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I've got them, you know, I got them. I mean
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I've got a good fit for them.
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And so then once I match up and give them options,
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I usually limit it to three options, the best three
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that I think would work for them, usually with like,
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this is my first choice for you, but these are
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my recommendations. This is their story, this is their their
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game of golf. I'm just the caddy advising them, you know.
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So they're the one making the choices. And so if
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we can go tour together, I'll go tour with them.
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I can help ask questions with the community that they
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may have not thought to ask. I can even remind
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the salesperson of the community to say some things about
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their community that they may have forgotten to say too.
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But just kind of be an intermediary because I know
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their story now more than the community does, and so
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I can help make sure that they understand the community
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better and so they can tour it, learn about it.
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And then ultimately it's their decision. If they have other
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suggestions or other things that I missed, they can, we
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can go to another place, you know, But the ultimate
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choice is theirs. They make the choice, they move in,
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and then that's pretty much the end of my story,
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although I do follow up with them occasionally just to
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see how things are going to make sure that I
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did find the best fit for them, not just in
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the immediate term, but in the long term as well.
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So yeah, that's it, essentially, to boil it back down.
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A matchmaker, a match seniors with senior living.
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I like the Caddy analogy. That's a good thing. Yeah,
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how much does how much does senior placement cost?
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Senior placement costs zero dollars to the senior and their family.
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It's free to them. They don't call it. It doesn't
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cost them anything. So if you reach out to me,
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I'm going to not charge you a thing. I'm going
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to first give you a disclosure form to sign saying
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that you understand that it's free to me. But then
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I'm anticipating your next question, how is it free? How
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do I get paid? How do I have a business
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if I don't take money? Well, so I get paid
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by the community. So I have contracts all over town
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with multiple there's like four hundred and fifty different senior
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living options in town, and I've got contracts all over
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town with a wide variety of senior living communities. And
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so if you move into a community that I recommend,
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then they pay me a finder's fee, like a referral fee,
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and that keeps free to the client, which is from
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my experience that I mentioned earlier where.
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I was overwhelmed.
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Just having another bill that I have to pay just
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adds to the overwhelming feeling.
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So I had a placement agent helped me with my
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dad and it was a huge help and I was
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very grateful for it, and especially the fact that I
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didn't have to pay or anything.
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So is there a downside to using a senior placement company?
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Well, I like to think that there are way more
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positives than downsides.
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But I would say that.