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to the subject matters covered. This information is given with
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the understanding that neither the hosts, guests, sponsors, or station
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are engaged in rendering any specific and personal medical, financial,
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legal counseling, professional service, or any advice. You should seek
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the services of competent professionals before applying or trying any
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suggested ideas. The information contained in this podcast is intended
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for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for
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individual professional legal advice. The podcast information was carefully compiled
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from vetted sources and references. However, Rose Resources outreach to
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safeguard the elderly cannot guarantee that you will not fall
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victim to a scam.
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Let's talk about scams. It's the must listen show for
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anyone who wants to protect themselves and their loved ones
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from scams. Every Tuesday at am Pacific time on K
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four HD Radio, Joyce Petrowski, founder of Rose, and her
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guests will provide valuable insights and practical tips on how
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to recognize and protect yourself from scams. And now here
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is your host, Joyce Petrowski.
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Good morning, everybody, My name is Brian Watson, community outreach
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specialist with Rose and I am filling in for Joyce
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this morning. Joyce will be back next week. Let's talk
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about scams. We are in the prevention business. We do
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not want people to be scammed and that's our number
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one mission, and our primary focus is older adults. But
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we surely know that every age group gets scammed. But
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what we do know the older we get, the more
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likely we are to lose more money than anybody else.
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The stats don't lie, So thank you for tuning in today.
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This is so important because so many people have financial plans,
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they've saved, they have an estate, they have a trust,
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they have wills, they've planned, and they've done everything right
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and it just takes one really good scammer to wipe
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it all away. So thank you for watching today. You
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are doing the right thing. You are protecting yourself, you're
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protecting your family, and you're protecting others. So today's topic
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is called what is the urgency? And I'm kind of
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using an article that I wrote for the Green Valley
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News recently. Green Valley News is a newspaper in southern Arizona,
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and I'm very grateful to get to write for them
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every month on a various scam related topic, and to
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be very honest, this topic today is it's kind of
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a little bit of frustration. I'm venting a little bit
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if you just bear with me, but you'll understand why.
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It's nothing personal. It's because of my care for other
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people and how much it pains me to see people
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get scammed. So I recently celebrated August first two years
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with being with Rose and it's been an amazing experience,
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and I thank Joyce for bringing me on. And I've
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got to meet our board and our advisory committee, and
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I'll tell you we have some very smart, passionate people
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who really want to protect people in our community. And
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a lot of our board members and advisory committee folks,
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it's personal to them because they've had a scammer affect
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their family or friend or neighbor and they want to
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get in on the fight. And I'm also over the
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last two years, got to meet amazing people all over
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this state. And you know, various presentations I do, or
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if I do TV or radio or podcast interviews, I've
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got to meet so many people and I really appreciate
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them listening to our message and letting us share our warnings.
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And what have I learned in two years. I've learned
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that very smart people get scammed. Surprised me more than
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I thought. I really thought I was going to run
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into people who had lost some of their mental capabilities
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due to age or illness. It's not necessarily the case.
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Everyone that I've met is very smart, often very educated.
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They handle their own finances, but they just got dupe
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by scammers. But I've also learned the scammers have gotten
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way better over the last five, ten, twenty twenty five years.
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It's just not fair. If you get in the ring
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with these people. You need to disengage. You need to
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end whatever phone conversation is going on. You need to
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delete emails, delete text messages, you need to wait. All
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these things that Joyce and I talk about on a
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weekly basis, taking your time, time as your friend. But
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here's my frustration. I will be out in the public
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somewhere and I'll meet someone and I'll tell them what
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we do at Rose, and they get all excited and say, yeah,
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we'd love to have you at our church and our
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social group, at our club, whatever it is, And then
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I don't hear back from them. And I'll send them
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an email or I'll leave them a message, but they
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don't call back, and I get frustrated. I get so
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frustrated because I know that people are out there are
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basically sitting ducks, and I and everyone else that rose
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we see all the scams that are happening on a
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daily basis, and we know so many people are just
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they're not protected, you know, and a lot of people
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figure out scams on their own just using common sense.
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But the scammers get better and better every single day,
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and you have to have some scam prevention in place.
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I mean, if you experience what I see on a
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daily basis and what happens when I do a presentation
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and someone comes up to me in tears afterwards tell
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me about their loss, it's very motivating for me to
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go out and do more presentations. But it's also frustrating
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when some of these groups just they don't. It's just
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not important to them.
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You know.
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Most people, really, to be honest, don't think about scams
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until it happens to someone they love or someone they
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care about. You know, when one of our family members
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get scammed, what do we do, Well, we go into
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pade and we ask them all kinds of questions, and
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we close bank accounts and we try to get the
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money back, and it's it's it's it's a hard job
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because the money is a lot of time gone. So
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you know, we try to claw that money back and
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sometimes it's possible, sometimes it's not. You know, a lot
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of the methods now when you send the money, it's
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just gone. So I've struggled to come up with an
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analogy as it released to scams, and I came up
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with a house on fires analogy. If you're sitting at
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home and the smoke alarms are going off and your
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house is on fire, you would immediately exit the house
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and call the fire department. Well, scammers are like arsonists.
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They're sitting outside of your house and they're they're starting
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a little fire on the outside of your house, trying
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to burn it down, and we want to warn everyone
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about that threat. So I know it's not a great analogy,
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but the scammers are basically trying to burn down your
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financial house and when it's fully engulfed, you'll get out.
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But we want you to see those arsonists out, the
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scammers outside that are being like arsenists, and stop them
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from even even starting the fire. Like I said, I
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get frustrated because I'll do a presentation and someone will
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come up to me afterwards and tell me their story.
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They'll say, I've been scammed. It's affected me. I can't sleep,
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I stress, I have horrible self esteem. Now I'm embarrassed,
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I'm shamed, and a lot of times these people are
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in tears. I remember meeting a lady who got scammed
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in a romance scam and she referred to him as Peter.
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She goes, my Peter. We don't even know if Peter
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was his real name. It could have been anything. It
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could have been a woman, it could have been a
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bunch of people working together they're creating Peter. But she
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had fallen in love with Peter, and she was telling
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me about it and tears in her eyes. I've seen
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damage family relationships because of the embarrassment and shame. Someone's
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lost all this money and then they have to tell
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their kids, I've lost this money. I mean, that's it.
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It's really really rough, you know. I met a lady
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who lost one hundred and seventy nine dollars and she
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was ashamed of it and embarrassed, and to her that
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was a lot of money, but it wasn't the money.
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It was the blow to her self esteem. And I
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just told her it's okay. A lot of smart people
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fall for scams. I've met people that I've lost three
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hundred thousand, seven hundred thousand in excess of a million.
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Last week, I spoke to a gentleman and his dad
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lost over four million dollars in a romance scam that
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turned into to pig butchering. He was investing in cryptocurrency
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and they just took They just kept taking more and
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more from him. He kept selling assets and they just
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really tailored their scam to really go after this guy. Guy.
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But over four million dollars, think that's like gental wealth
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that's just gone. So recently, I had the pleasure of
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doing a fraud prevention presentation and a local retirement community,
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and it took me two years to get this thing scheduled.
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As soon as I joined Rose in twenty twenty three,
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I approached this community and said, hey, we'd love to
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do a presentation, and you know, it was just crickets.
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They didn't get back to me, and I would ask periodically,
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very nicely, hey are we rated? Just I mean you
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guys could really use it. It's a huge community. They
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have a lot of well to do people, and I
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don't want them to get scammed. So during that two years,
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I found out from a local bank manager that one
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of the residents of this community came into this particular
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branch and he was withdrawing money from his bank account
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and he told them it was for home improvements. Well,
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here's the problem. The bank manager knew this gentleman was
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renting the unit he lived in. You don't make home
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improvements where this gentleman lived. So the scammers had told
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him a line to say to the bank managers to
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prevent them from stopping him from taking money out of
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the bank. Well, this bank manager knew and she wasn't
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gonna listen to the lie that he was told by
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the scammers, and she basically convinced him he was being
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scammed and said, I know you're lying to me about
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where this money's going. And then I also became aware
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of a second residence at this big community that was
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being scammed, And so you could see how I was
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frustrated that people in this community are getting scammed, yet
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they don't have the urgency to schedule one of our presentations.
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And you know, just because you have one of our
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presentations is not a guarantee you won't be scammed. But
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I'm telling you it's gonna make you a whole lot better.
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We've got to practice, we've got to be talking about
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this stuff. So there's a happy ending to the story.
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As the old saying goes better late than ever. This
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community did bring me to speak to them, and we
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had a really full room. Everyone really appreciated it. I
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got a lot of compliments that the information was very helpful,
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and that's just music to my years. I wish everybody
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in the entire community was there, but I'm a realist
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that's not going to happen. People have lives and other
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things going on. But there was a room full of
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people and we sent them home with some practical advice.
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So you know, sometimes, you know, one of the reasons
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why a group won't won't bring us on to speak
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is is they're worried that they're going to scare people.
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And I get it, there's there's some truth to that.
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But I'm very conscious conscious when I start my presentations,
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always at the beginning, I warn people. I say, I'm
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going to tell you some really scary stories about very
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smart people losing a lot of money. And I don't
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tell you this to make you feel bad or send
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you home scared. I do this to toughen you up
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and make you realize or help you realize what we're
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going against with these scammers these days. And then at
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a certain point in the presentation, I say, all right,
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no more scary stories. And there's a little laugh about that,
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because you know, it's scary to hear this stuff. And
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then we always end on a positive note. We send
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folks home with good common sense advice. You know, a
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lot of this is not rocket science, it's just common
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sense stuff. So we've got the presentation done, and it
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was a good thing because we want everyone to have
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a scam prevention plan. So what is a scam prevention plan?
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Just doing something? The fact that you're watching us today
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on Let's talk about scams Bravo, you are doing scam prevention.
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What else can you do? Sign up for our email list?
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You go to Roseadvocacy dot org. There's our website right
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on the screen Rose Advocacy dot Org, and right on
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the front page there's a blue button where you can
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sign up for our email list. It comes out once
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a month. It's free. We just need a name and
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an email. If you like it, share it with your friends.
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If you don't like it, you can unsubscribe. We won't
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have our feelings hurt. And then we also send out
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every Tuesday a little tip. It's just a smaller version
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of the newsletter, just to keep this stuff in our mind.
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And then scam prevention also means you have a family
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member or friend that you can call any time of
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the day if you're not sure about an email, a
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text message, a phone call, something on social media. And
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it also means scam prevention. It goes both ways. People